I didn’t talk about cancer in my profile, but I posted a picture of myself with a mohawk, taken at the head-shaving party I threw before chemo.

So now that I am, my attitude is, ' F--k it, this is me.

I am a survivor of lung cancer stage3 for seven years tomorrow.

After years of trying to control my looks, surrendering has been healing.

It was the new me, the survivor, who created a profile on Coffee Meets Bagel last spring.

Aside from the checklist you really should have a few paragraphs describing yourself and your interests outside of D/s.