Lauren: It's just that the doctor part of me never shuts off, and I know that Im merely acting out of transference of grief onto you.Wanting to have sex is a very common response to grief. Something better Bo: Yeah, I, um I can see how intimacy could do that. When a character has sex, possibly while drunk, in order to help them cope with (emotional) trauma from a recent tragedy. Regardless of the exact circumstances the relationship is over and Alice is emotionally crushed.But don’t pursue an activity for the sole reason of impressing women. Whatever your hobbies and interests are, it’s extremely attractive if women can sense your passion in the way you talk about them and the amount of time you dedicate in pursuing them. If you can make a girl laugh and show you’re fun to be around, she’ll associate positive feelings with you.
If you want to attract high value women start dressing like a high value man.
You don’t have to wear designer labels and flash a rolex to dress well. Like James Bond or Damon Salvatore in the Vampire Diaries, rather than Harold Wolowitz from The Big Bang Theory.
Her attraction for you is not logically determined by a screening process – your job, looks, hobbies and interests.
So don’t treat your interactions with women like an interview. Rather than ask boring questions like “Where are you from? “You sound like you’re an Essex girl with that terrible accent of yours”. They want to be rescued from the boredom of everyday life. Pretend you’re hiding from FBI agents, and need a girl’s help to escort you to the bar unscathed.
These are not emotionally healthy relationships, nor do they count as "relationships" by any definition of the term; they are just a string of one night stands as she tries to cope with the loss.