I am a guy that is 100% on your side, I don’t pull any punches not because I want to be right, but because I want you to get the guy!This is a win/win because creating and maintaining this kind of attraction is exactly what he wants as well.If you are the one constantly texting him and showing need, this will continue into whatever relationship you create with him.
Text back only when he does – Ties right into the above, you need to let him take the lead here.
You need to set the stage for the type of relationship you would like to have with him later.
The real issue is that texting is ubiquitous and it’s not going anywhere soon.
Instead of using it as a way to say hi or let you know he’s running late, it becomes a crutch for real relationship communication.
And since all you’ve done is text me twice a week for the past six weeks without any increased effort, I’m going to take that as a sign that you’re not that interested in a relationship. If he cared about you, he’d WANT to call you, WANT to see you, WANT to commit to you.