Does any man really like to be called your Sexy Silver Fox?Although, I call J "Kid" in this super-cute, ironic way.There's already enough pressure when it comes to dating, why add more stress and think about the age thing if you really like this dude?

I thought I was totally prepared to deal with the daily realities of having a boyfriend who was older than me by a decade-plus, which turned out to be less than correct.

Before I get into the real nitty gritty, though, a few caveats.

First, being attracted to older guys is completely and totally normal.

It doesn’t mean you have “daddy issues” or whatever; that phrase doesn’t actually mean anything, because it can be applied (or, preferably, not) to every person on the planet.

Being attracted to someone older just means you are a human person who sometimes thinks other human people are sexy!