Yet here he is, willing to skip out on younger, toned bodies because he thinks we're cool, calm and low maintenance even with wrinkles around our eyes. More recently, I bumped into this gorgeous late 30s or early 40s young man who was a cross between Hugh Laurie and George Clooney. You may find that a man closer to your age is a better fit as someone you want to share your life with.
But that doesn't mean you can't have fun trying the cougar thing for a change.
Our high maintenance ways were just hidden from these young men since they don't live with their mommies anymore.
Somehow, they've created this great fantasy of who they think we are, and that is what they want to experience. He could have had the pick of the litter his own age and even younger, yet he was asking me, a 50 year old woman, on a date? Instead, I played the game and flirted with him, while having a charming afternoon being courted by a young handsome man. As much chemistry as we had, I actually found it hard to relate to a lot of what he was saying, but that afternoon was fun and he sure did make me feel good!
Gratitude, humor, quick wit, and an easy going nature were present in Ardis's life.