Because as long as you don’t take that step, you’re holding on to hope, you’re holding on to expectations, and you’re going to get painfully disappointed.
You might not want to admit it yet – and not a whole lot of guys are able to – but your relationship is most likely beyond saving.
If she initiated the breakup and you’re shocked, then she’s way ahead of you in processing this whole thing.
The moment I was able to accept that we had no future together was when I realized that the girl I fell in love with, no longer existed.
There was only this other girl, who was acting irrationally and impulsively, hurting me along the way.
My girlfriend left me for someone else, and the intense, debilitating pain I went through was the catalyst for this blog. If that sounds familiar, you’ve come to the right place. Because it’s normal to feel sad and depressed after a breakup. These days may be the hardest but it keeps getting easier and easier. I know you guys might have said you were soulmates. There are a million guys that walked that path before you my friend. What’s more, thinking in terms of the one is irrational.